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A Promise Kept Before Breakfast: The Everyday Work of Raising Strong Children

  Chapter 1: The Question Before the Car Starts At 6:47 in the morning, a child is standing near the kitchen counter with one shoe on and the other in their hand. Breakfast is getting cold. Somebody is looking for a car key. The day already feels crowded, and the child asks a question that sounds almost too small to interrupt it: “Are you coming today?” Maybe there is a school presentation, a game, or an activity they have practiced for weeks. The child isn't asking for a speech about love. They want to know whether someone will be there. That is the everyday question at the heart of a Christian father's message about showing up for his children: when our children reach for us, what can they reasonably expect to find? I know that question has different answers in different households. Some parents work shifts they cannot change. Some are raising children by themselves, and some are trying to keep the lights on while making decisions that would exhaust anyone. I would never redu...

The Morning After Mercy: The Choice No One Can Make for You

  Chapter 1: The Extra Twenty Dollars The cashier hands you your change, and you walk toward the parking lot before noticing the extra twenty-dollar bill. You are tired, the groceries are melting in the trunk, and getting back in line feels like one more chore in a week already crowded with them. Nobody saw the mistake. The decision is yours, and it is small enough that you could easily persuade yourself it does not matter. But you turn around, because the person you are becoming matters even when nobody is watching. I think about moments like that when I reflect on the Bible story of the prisoner released instead of Jesus. At first, that event seems too enormous to have anything to do with a grocery receipt or an ordinary Tuesday. A guilty man received freedom he had not earned, while an innocent man was sent toward the cross. We want to know why the crowd made that choice. Yet another question deserves our attention: what should a person do after receiving mercy? Maybe you have b...

A Christian Halloween Begins With the Choices Nobody Else Can Make for You

  Chapter 1: Two Bags of Candy and One Unanswered Question At six o’clock on a rainy October evening, a woman stands in the party aisle of a discount store with two bags of wrapped candy in her basket. Her apartment building has announced a hallway treat walk for the children who live there. The manager has asked residents to leave a light on if they want visitors. This woman likes the idea of meeting families whose names she still does not know, but the advertisement includes frightening decorations that she would never choose for her own door. Her phone is open to the building’s message. She has been staring at the words “Count me in” without pressing send. What troubles her is not the price of candy. She wants to know whether joining part of the evening means agreeing with all of it. That hesitation deserves a thoughtful answer, not a lecture. Christians are often asked whether Halloween is good or bad as though every person celebrates it in exactly the same way. But an evening ...