A Promise Kept Before Breakfast: The Everyday Work of Raising Strong Children
Chapter 1: The Question Before the Car Starts At 6:47 in the morning, a child is standing near the kitchen counter with one shoe on and the other in their hand. Breakfast is getting cold. Somebody is looking for a car key. The day already feels crowded, and the child asks a question that sounds almost too small to interrupt it: “Are you coming today?” Maybe there is a school presentation, a game, or an activity they have practiced for weeks. The child isn't asking for a speech about love. They want to know whether someone will be there. That is the everyday question at the heart of a Christian father's message about showing up for his children: when our children reach for us, what can they reasonably expect to find? I know that question has different answers in different households. Some parents work shifts they cannot change. Some are raising children by themselves, and some are trying to keep the lights on while making decisions that would exhaust anyone. I would never redu...